tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-299513072024-03-14T00:14:00.637-04:00Asian Fun and Then SomeCommentary on literature, writing, life and the various adventures I may or may not have.mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.comBlogger345125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-87332477591113431482010-05-11T20:09:00.002-04:002010-05-11T20:45:09.930-04:00Seriously Scummy.I've already been frustrated with the recent influx of "sex scandals" and infidelities from celeb husbands and even more irritated with the "I have a sex addiction" cop-out. I completely believe in sex addictions and know how difficult the struggle many people have with controlling their sexual impulses and the deep rooted issues that accompany a sex addiction. However, I think that cheating on your wife a bunch doesn't automatically mean you have a sex addiction nor if you go through "treatment" are you magically "cured." Right now I think claiming "sex addiction" and going through "treatment" is just becoming a big fat cop-out and a way to not taking responsibility for your disgusting actions against your spouse and family. These men definitely need therapy because I don't know how you can deliberately hurt your spouse and family in such a way without having some major intimacy issues, but lets wait before we cry "sex addiction" please.<div><br /></div><div>Even with my recent disappointment and disgust with all the recent celeb infidelities, I was absolutely crushed (okay, slight exaggeration, but I was really bummed) to find that my favorite vampire with a soul is now added onto the list of scummy husbands. Yup, once Angel on my all-time favorite vampire show, <i>Buffy the Vampire Slayer</i>, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/05/03/david-boreanaz-admits-che_n_561822.html">David Boreanaz has admitted to cheating</a> on his wife with at least two different women and while she was on bed-rest due to her high risk pregnancy! He was even texting one of his mistresses while his wife was in labor! Jeez, could you get any more scummier? I've also become a fan of <i>Bones</i> but I find it hard feeling so positive about a character when the actor underneath the character is so scummy towards the person he is supposed to love and respect more than anybody else in the world.</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-17923591339792888132010-05-03T17:12:00.003-04:002010-05-03T17:34:34.782-04:00The Story of Edgar Sawtelle : A Book Club Review<div><b>Asian Fun:</b></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S988-tMSsMI/AAAAAAAAA8w/ijdau2hnJZI/s1600/es.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S988-tMSsMI/AAAAAAAAA8w/ijdau2hnJZI/s400/es.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467155520631779522" /></a>I both loved and hated <i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-9780061374234-4">The Story of Edgar Sawtelle</a> </i>by David Wroblewski<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; ">Had I known that the novel was loosely based on <i>Hamlet</i> prior to reading it, perhaps I could have braced myself better for the tragic ending. However, I was not aware of this and I'm one that gets completely enveloped into good books so that when it became blatantly clear, I still did not pick up on the clues making the ending a spiral of despair for me. More so than even the original <i>Hamlet.</i></span></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; ">What made me love this book was that the story was one of pure beauty. I, as most people who know me know, am obsessed with dogs and so the eloquence and grace that Wroblewski writes about the dogs in this book was touching and truly beautiful. He creates an idyllic life at the beginning of the novel. Not perfect, of course Edgar Sawtelle is mute with no explanation and must live a life of somewhat isolation, if it weren't for his dogs. However, there is peace and love in the story that is both satisfying and enviable.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; ">Of course this has to end, and so it does with the entrance of Clyde, the troubled uncle of Edgar. The events that follow lead Edgar deeper into isolation and his family down to a dark path. The ending, while again, could have been anticipated if I'd known any better, was too bitter for me to completely love the book. I didn't expect a big red bow or anything, but to give us something so beautiful and then to crush it into tiny little pieces, that just didn't leave me with a fuzzy feeling at the end of the book. I was crushed and did not feel any hope at the end. Sure, the dogs survived, but survived to what? What was their fate to be? Wandering around as stray dogs, the line ultimately forever lost? I suppose they were free and could do as they pleased, but in our world today, stray animals just don't survive like wild dogs used to. In the end it felt as if all was lost and only because of that I cannot give this really beautifully told story five stars.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; ">4*</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><b>Puerto Rican Pecan:</b></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><b><br /></b></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 16px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "><p class="Normal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Normal__Char Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-9780061374234-4">The Story of Edgar Sawtelle</a></i></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">, written by David Wroblewski is a beautiful allusion to Shakespeare’s </span></span><span class="Normal__Char Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><i>Hamlet</i></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">. It’s a love story, a story for animal lovers, and a tale of the intricate interweaving of family dynamics. As I read this book, my main thought was that I wish that I had this book while I was in high school, struggling to understand </span></span><span class="Normal__Char Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><i>Hamlet</i></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">. While it only loosely follows Shakespeare’s story line, Wroblewski deftly portrays the emotions and complex relationships that the Sawtelle family have with each other, and the dogs that they breed. In the author’s interview in the back of the book, he talked a little about how he used his childhood home as the backdrop for his novel. He uses powerful metaphors, really capturing the scene’s beauty and yet, casting a mist around it that almost makes it seem like a magical place.</span></span></p><p class="Normal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></p><p class="Normal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">One of the gems of this book is the story of the dogs, and how they play into Edgar’s life. I especially loved the relationship between Edgar and his best dog, Almondine. She is Edgar’s voice, his emotional compass, and his very best friend. She seems to be the eyes and ears of what is not said on the Sawtelle farm, giving a “voice” to the ghosts and mystery of the place. Wroblewski takes his time in the novel to explain the breeding and development of the extraordinary Sawtelle dogs, a dog that was actually bred for personality, not appearance. This provided a welcome place to dwell within the novel when it became too tragic. Like the characters in the novel, the dogs are the focus when all goes wrong. It binds the family together, for good and bad. </span></span></p><p class="Normal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></span></p><p class="Normal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">On the downside, this book is a tragedy. If you’ve read </span></span><span class="Normal__Char Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><i>Hamlet</i></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">, then you know that the book cannot possibly end happily. *If you haven’t read it, then skip this last bit.* However, unlike Shakespeare’s masterpiece, we get to know more about the mental state of Edgar when he dies. I felt a sense of serenity about him, and really felt happy for him. It was as though all the trouble and the drama were forgotten; he could be at peace with those he loved best.</span></span></p><p class="Normal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">This book may not be a beachside read, but it is a beautiful retelling of a timeless classic. It is definitely worth picking up. </span></span></p></span></span></span></span></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-73746971386974713122010-04-03T15:48:00.004-04:002010-04-03T16:23:52.076-04:00Let the Great World Spin: A Book Club Review<b>Asian Fun:</b><div><b><br /></b><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S7eeCWHGsQI/AAAAAAAAA8o/_Mp714wJyEg/s1600/cover.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 120px; height: 185px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S7eeCWHGsQI/AAAAAAAAA8o/_Mp714wJyEg/s400/cover.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456003236714950914" /></a><i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/62-9780812973990-0">Let the Great World Spin</a> </i>by Colum McCann won the National Book Award for Fiction 2009 for good reason. In a series of interconnected short stories, McCann paints a diverse picture of New York City in the 70s. McCann has the magical ability to capture the heart of both a rich woman grieving the loss of her son and a prostitute grieving the loss of her daughter. He is able to present each character with brutal honesty but at the same time extreme compassion.</div><div><br /></div><div>I found some of his stories so beautiful and moving, McCann's language is fluid and he finds a beautiful and unique way to describe connection, loss and love. I also appreciate McCann's style, he "shines a light on the dark corners of the world" (well, New York City anyways) but without compromising the integrity of the story. Having worked in social work, I've seen some of the darker sides of humanity and as painful as it is to face, McCann does not exaggerate the suffering that some people are forced to continuously endure. I felt that McCann handled these darker sides of humanity with a grace and honesty that's difficult to balance. Its a credit to his talent that he was able to balance these two forces beautifully.</div><div><br /></div><div>If you're looking for a unique and beautiful American novel, then dive into this literary masterpiece and know that even in the deepest despair of any story, you'll be rewarded with hope and the beauty of language by the end of this book.</div><div><br /></div><div>4*</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Puerto Rican Pecan:</b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-weight: normal; "><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px; "><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-weight: normal; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; "><i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/62-9780812973990-0">Let the Great World Spin</a></i></span></span></b></span>, by Colum McCann, is a book about NYC in the 1970’s</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> that centers around one day in the life of several characters, and a moment that brings them together in unpredictable ways. While well written, this book was a seriously depress</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">ing book for me. People abused drugs, experienced poverty and unfair treatment from those around them, were killed, abused and were abused. And through it all, there was almost nothing at the end to inspire hope. I </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">was happy to have finished it.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">This book, while not my cup of tea, did have some good parts to point out. McCann’s character, Corrigan, was an interesting person to follow in this book. I loved his embodiment of God’s word, truly giving of all that he had in mind, body, and worldly possessions. I loved watching his internal struggle of trying to decide whom he loved more, Christ or Adelita. And what’s more, I appreciated his ability to look past wanting to do what he liked, and instead </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">liked what he did.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">I also enjoyed reading from the perspective of the tight rope walker. McCann created a conflict within me through this character because, though the majority of the book is doom and gloom, the tightrope walker casts the light of beauty and optimism over the mayhem that ensues below him. I wanted to stop reading, and yet even I was drawn to see more of the book through his eyes</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">*Spoiler*</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">In the end though, the doom and gloom of Tillie Henderson’s story caught up with me. It was as if McCann chose every bad thing that could ever happen to a person, and then acted them out on Tillie. It felt overdone and overplayed, and by the time Tillie hung herself, I could only feel glad to have her out of the story so we could all finally have a little peace.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Here’s the bottom line – if you like melodrama and want something to make you feel better about your own life, then this book is for you. Otherwise, </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">take a pass on this one.</span></span></p></span></b></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-32146074866457576112010-04-01T10:15:00.004-04:002010-04-01T13:54:04.146-04:00Supporting an Athlete.It is no secret that I'm a Steelers fan mostly because of Ben Roethlisberger. I followed him in college and continued to follow him when the Steelers drafted him. Once watching the Steelers, my husband and I just fell in love with the hard hitting, Defensive team and its been the Steelers for us every since.<div><br /></div><div>So what do you when your favorite player, someone you've actually met and found to be a nice guy and whose jersey you own has been accused of sexual assault twice in twelve months? Having volunteered for the Rape Crisis Center for years I feel reluctant to judge the accusers as I know how hard it is to actually prosecute when you've been sexually assaulted. If the accusations are true at all, then all my sympathy are with the women. But it is also not uncommon for athletes to be falsely accused due to their status. I feel torn and disgusted about this whole issue. On the one hand, if these women are lying, then they're making it harder for real victims to prosecute because they're setting up the precedence that women lie about this sort of thing all the time, when in fact only about 8% of accusations are found to be false. But on the other hand, if Big Ben's misusing his fame and his strength to assault women then he should be in jail and I'm disgusted to own anything with his name on it. But until all the facts are in, I feel like I'm in limbo. I doubt it will be, but hopefully this will all be cleared up before the next season starts, if it'll ever be cleared up at all.</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-9714309511731975912010-04-01T09:54:00.003-04:002010-04-01T10:56:51.550-04:00To Write or Sleep?That's the question I've been wrestling with these past couple of months. I'm a one hundred percent night owl. If it were up to me, I'd stay up until about 3am every night then sleep in until about noon, but unfortunately the world isn't on the same page with me, and I'm forced to adjust. One of the most difficult adjustments is with my writing. In college, where I've written my best work, I'd have the liberty to stay up late and sleep in (okay, so I'd skip some classes sometimes to sleep in, but who didn't?) But now I have to wake up early for my job, so I'm not able to take advantage of my most creative window of the day, 12am-3am. I still get my most creative story ideas around that time of day, usually when laying in bed a story will play itself out in my head, plot, characters all the way to the ending. I'll even have some paragraphs written out in my head and I'll swear that I'll write it all down when I get some time the next day. That free time doesn't usually happen until the evening the next day, around 8pm, and by then the magic of the story is lost on me and I can't remember all the parts to it or what had made it so special. I do keep a notebook to jot down ideas next to my bed, but I'm usually half asleep and so tired when my mind is writing that even that seems like too much work. But it makes me feel like a slacker writer. How do you do it all? Have a normal life and also fit in writing? I've certainly tried writing sometimes during the day or early evening, but its not my prime time for creativity and so it feels like I'm always forcing it. Do I need to train myself to be a writer at all hours of the day or do I need to give up some sanity and sleep and write at night like I used to?mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-55568406654971119522010-02-28T21:06:00.008-05:002010-02-28T23:30:39.957-05:00Say You're One of Them: A Book Club Review<div><b>Asian Fun:</b></div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S4szgVd7VEI/AAAAAAAAA4I/kCXhqcyUjkI/s1600-h/say+your+one+of+them.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 120px; height: 183px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S4szgVd7VEI/AAAAAAAAA4I/kCXhqcyUjkI/s400/say+your+one+of+them.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5443501205218874434" /></a><i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio?isbn=9780316086370">Say You're One of Them</a></i> by Uwem Akpan is a series of short stories told through various African children's eyes. It's a book that captures multiple interests of mine - Africa and children. The stories are unflinching in the face of the cruelty the children in the stories are faced with whether its a twelve-year-old hooker, child slavery or fleeing violence.<div><br /></div><div>I'm torn about this book. On the one hand, it speaks exactly to my deepest and most passionate interests. Also, as a writer, I tend to be unflinching and blunt as well, and so in theory this book should have been right up my ally, but in fact, I had a difficult time getting into this book. The most glaring thing that annoyed me was the dialogue. This may be a style preference, but in my creative writing class my professor advised us to avoid being overly literal when trying to convey accents, using the Southern accent as an example. He explained, and I totally agree, that it gets distracting if you use half spelled words or incorrectly spelled words in order to convey an accent and that it was better to do so subtly. Unfortunately this book is riddled with distracting and bad dialogue. By the end of the first story I wanted to tear my hair out reading that dialogue and this kept me from getting into the story.</div><div><br /></div><div>I've been known to be a blunt and unflinching writer about the cruelty children have to endure. I've written about abuse, rape and neglect. In writing about these harsh subjects, I've learned that the most essential component is handling these subject matters with the right balance. Its important to not lose the story in your effort to shine a light on the dark corners of the world. Sometimes when people are passionate about a certain subject matter and they write a fictional story about it, they lose the essence of the story in trying to expose certain realities. I certainly understand the impulse, sometimes you want to shove certain realities in people's faces because it is That important for people to understand, but if in doing so you forget to honor the story then you shouldn't be writing fiction but non-fiction. When writing fiction, the story always comes first before any other agenda. This is something that I feel Akpan struggled with, and while I appreciate his sincere passion for the children of his stories, I also felt the sacrifice to the story itself he made due to this passion.</div><div><br /></div><div>While both of these factors kept me from truly getting into the stories, I could appreciate the intimate information on the conditions of children in Africa. And for this reason I find this book invaluable for me personally. However, while I find this book valuable for my own personal and academic interests, I have to rate it as a work of fiction.</div><div><br /></div><div>3*<br /><br /></div><div><b>Puerto Rican Pecan:</b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia;"><p style="margin-top: 0pt; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Georgia, serif;"><i></i></span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Georgia, serif;"><i><p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="apple-style-span"><i><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio?isbn=9780316086370"><span style="color:#CC8900;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Say You're One of Them</span></span></a></span></i></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">by Uwem Akpan is a collection of short stories written about several African populations, from the point of the child. I think that Akpan summed up his novel well, so I’m going to quote him. He said, “I think fiction allows us to sit for a while with people we would rather not meet.” This is exactly how I feel about his novel. What do any of us in America really know about people living in Africa? Sure, if you get up early on the weekends, there are telethons to “help the starving children of Africa.” There are news stories about the wars, the starvation, the AIDS crisis, complete with pictures of children with distended bellies and dirty, tear-streaked faces. This is the Africa we know. And it’s G-rated in comparison to Akpan’s novel. You would rather not read it, but for the sake of the reality in which Akpan depicts.</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></o:p></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">My favorite story was the one entitled, “Luxurious Hearses.” In it, a Muslim teenager is trying to escape from his war-torn city in the north to his father’s Born-Again Christian home in the south. I loved seeing how all the different religions converged on this bus, and how old traditions collided with new ideas. **Spoiler Alert** Akpan skillfully lured us into loving Jubril, the extremist Muslim hero, by showing his human side to us. Most of us know about biracial children, but Akpan shows a different version of this in his story. Jubril is bi-religious, his mother being Muslim and his father being Christian. Akpan shows how we all hide parts of ourselves that might make people loathe us. Though he hides his Muslim self, he struggles to try to understand the Christian self he is portraying. He feels much of the same struggle that biracial children feel in the U.S.; never being fully accepted into any one race. Because he is baptized, his Muslims friends can only see him as an evil Christian, and because he is missing his right hand, the bus full of Christians cannot see anything but an evil Muslim before them. Akpan shows us the similarity in the two religions, which really focus on finding salvation in doing right by others, and yet, their hatred of each other. When he is killed at the end of the story, I felt true shock. I think I was expecting the happy ending, even though I couldn’t fathom what he would do when he got to his fatherland. So beautiful was Akpan’s writing, I could really feel Jubril’s peace in his acceptance of himself before his death.</span></span></span></span><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></p><p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><o:p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></o:p></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:";color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Everyone should read this book, because though the stories may be fictional, the people in them are not. Akpan’s children are real children. This book is depressing, painful, gut-wrenching, and it is also the responsibility of people to know.</span></span></span></span><span style="Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10.0pt;color:#333333;"><o:p></o:p></span></p></i></span><p></p></span></b></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-80056258954917494942010-02-09T21:42:00.004-05:002010-02-09T22:32:51.422-05:00The Horse Whisperer: A Review<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S3IdkuWAJBI/AAAAAAAAA2A/qBC04V6Cuvs/s1600-h/horsewhisperer.jpg"><blockquote></blockquote><blockquote></blockquote><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 120px; height: 196px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S3IdkuWAJBI/AAAAAAAAA2A/qBC04V6Cuvs/s400/horsewhisperer.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436440216942421010" /></a><i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780440222651-1">The Horse Whisperer</a></i> by Nicholas Evans is a book of loss, pain, love and healing. It's a book that I had read as a teenager and wept at the end of the book and that left me bewildered and devastated by what seemed to be an anti-love-conquers-all message. On a whim, I had seen the DVD while looking for a movie to watch with my hubby this weekend and talked him into watching it with me since I hadn't seen the movie or read the book since I was in high school. He grudgingly relented and fell asleep near the end of this surprisingly long movie. After watching the movie I remembered how moved I'd been by the book and decided to revisit it to see if it still would affect me in the same way. In many ways it did and in other ways it fell flat.<div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; "><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780440222651-1">The Horse Whisperer</a> </span>is about the many different relationships that intertwine in people's lives. It starts with a horrific accident that causes the death of a girl and her horse, and leaves her friend and her horse maimed. The girl, Grace, loses a leg, and her horse, Pilgrim, loses all confidence in himself and the world around him. Grace's mother, Annie, is blunt and fierce. She is an ask-questions-later type of woman who acts when she feels helpless, and so when she sees that she's losing her daughter to a deep depression, she focuses her attention on a problem that seems easier to fix, Pilgrim. Her research leads her to a man named Tom Booker, a horse whisperer famous for being able to calm crazy horses. In a decision that permanently changes all lives involved, she leaves her husband behind, whose relationship with her was already strained after the many painful miscarriages they'd suffered together when trying for a second child, and drives Grace and Pilgrim from New York to Montana to have Tom do his magic on Pilgrim.</div><div><br /></div><div>What remained as powerful as my memory of the book were the strength of the characters and your attachment to them, as well as the complexity of their relationships to each other. I enjoyed the characters and felt intimate with them, as if they were my friends, and other than one antagonizing character whose only purpose seems to be to set the climatical ending into motion, I liked all the characters in the book. The romance that begins between Tom and Annie was sweetly done, though sometimes corny and overdone, but it was enjoyable to read. </div><div><br /></div><div>However, I was surprised at how subpar the writing was. I know I was only in high school when I read it, but I don't remember even noticing the writing, good or bad. This reading, however, sometimes I was distracted by the writing. Evans seemed to try too hard sometimes to be profound and it came off confusing or just plain corny sometimes:</div><div><blockquote>And Annie leaned back her head and closed her eyes and thought, there is nothing but this. No other time nor place nor being than now and here and him and us. And no earthly point in calculating consequence or permanence or right or wrong, for all, all else, was as nothing to the act. It had to be and would be and was. (pp 386-387, mass paperback)</blockquote>I mean, seriously? What is that paragraph? It was just too much. Also, while I'm not totally opposed to being blunt about sex, sometimes Evans was so graphic that I felt like I was reading a cheesy romance novel, which I do think this book is more than that.</div><div><br /></div><div>My last quip about that book is that I thought the ending (the same one that had devastated my poor, over-romantic, over-emotional heart as a teenager) was just horrible - both in the movie and in the book. Neither worked at all with the characters! In the movie, Annie leaves Tom behind even though he made her feel "home" for the first time and she couldn't live without him. Bullshit, if their love was that profound then there is no way she could exist, even across the country, and not be with him. She would have gone back to him. </div><div><br /></div><div>In the book it was much worse (spoiler alert for anyone who wants to read the book), after Grace finds out about her mother and Tom's affair, she rides off in a craze, only to have to be saved by Tom (of course!) where Tom lets himself be killed because he knows Annie could never leave her husband because she couldn't tell Grace what she was doing after all she'd been through. So since he can't live without Annie, he just lets himself be killed by a wild horse, in front of Grace who they're all trying to emotionally protect supposedly, even though now Grace already knows about the affair so half the battle of telling her and of Annie leaving her husband is already conveniently taken care of. What I don't buy is that its not in Tom's character at all to let himself be killed, more so, he purposefully puts himself in the line of the horse's hooves trying to be killed. It wasn't like the horse was killing him and he just gave up, no, he basically was committing suicide, which doesn't go with Tom's go with the flow, let things happen as they should philosophy. And how was that sacrifice helpful to anybody? Instead of dealing with her parents divorcing, but still having them both and since she already had loved Tom once, giving her the chance to love him again as a father figure, Grace now has to deal with the guilt that her reckless actions caused Tom's death, which will forever leave her mother's heart maimed and all the people that his death hurt. Hmm, yeah, that seems sooo much better for Grace's emotional well-being. Bullshit. At first I thought it was just the romantic in me that thought it made more sense for Tom to get injured enough that Grace feels guilt for her actions and is able to step back and look at the situation more objectively and is more accepting, and that Annie and Tom end up together because that's what was meant to be. Not that there wouldn't be pain to contend with, but it'd be manageable and it'd pass. But the more I thought about it, the book was leading up to that conclusion and with the characters as they are, its the natural progression of what would happen. What seemed to happen was that Nicholas Evan's leaned towards the over-dramatic (which seems to be his nature) and had to go for the big death to play with his readers' emotions. And his <a href="http://www.nicholasevans.com/faq/faq.asp">explanation of this ending</a>?</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px; font-family:georgia;font-size:medium;"><blockquote><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Well, although Tom Booker is, in every respect, a real character, there is an important mythological aspect to him and to the story. He is, if you like, an immortal, the redemptive angel, the man in the white hat. There is a rule about such characters: when their work is done, they have to move on. They cannot hang around and 'mix it' with the mortals. For Annie and Grace to be free to get on with their lives, for the healing process to be properly complete, the healer-angel figure has to move on. Of course, he will live on forever in their hearts -- and in the new child that is born at the end of the story. </span></blockquote></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">First of all, I can see how he was set up to be a bit mystical before Annie met him, but it definitely didn't come off that way in the book. You get to be in his head too much to see how human he is and see his past mistakes and his feelings, so whatever Evans was trying to do just didn't work out and therefore the ending didn't work at all, which is a shame. Overall I found the book enjoyable, though far less so then when I was younger and now I can see the many holes in the story. The characters do stay with you and how could you not love calm and confident Tom Booker. In an embarrassing way, I also find Robert Redford sexy, even if he's old as fuck. Its that same calm confidence that you love about Tom... guess Redford cast himself pretty well for the role of Tom Booker.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I was tempted to give this book 4 stars for sentimental reasons, but I just can't do it, so 3 stars it gets.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">3*</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 18px; font-family:verdana, arial, sans-serif;font-size:11px;"><blockquote><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"></span></span></blockquote></span></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-40007297561329846642010-02-03T14:53:00.007-05:002010-02-03T15:10:12.512-05:00Olive Kitteridge: A Book Club Review<div>The first of our Book Club Reviews:</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Asian Fun:</b></div><div><br /></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S19XxKTPhII/AAAAAAAAA1I/HrCDT8KIlms/s1600-h/imageDB.cgi.jpg"><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S19XxKTPhII/AAAAAAAAA1I/HrCDT8KIlms/s400/imageDB.cgi.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5431156177722377346" style="float: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; cursor: pointer; width: 120px; height: 185px; " /></a><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780812971835-0"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: none;"><i>Olive Kitteridge</i></span></a> by Elizabeth Strout, Winner of the Pulitzer Prize, is a novel that cuts directly to the heart of what it is to be human. You quickly realize as you're reading that this novel will be taught in schools for generations, in other words, it will be a classic and a staple of our literary education. Why? Not just because of the beautiful, concise and flawless prose. Or because of the unique structure of the novel - the book consists of a series of short stories that all in some way involve the title character, Olive Kitteridge. Its the human element and the heart in the stories that make it a classic. Its the honesty of what love and life are really like while still finding beauty in every character, no matter how flawed. Strout has a deeply empathetic and sensitive eye that translates into characters that are hard to forget.<div><br /></div><div>Olive Kitteridge is a retired school teacher. She is blunt and direct while having a big heart. She struggles with her temper and pride, but is willing to reach out to those in need without a thought. Olive is a character that pops off the pages and perhaps that while she is a suitable driving force for this novel. In a series of short stories with sometimes no connection at all other than Olive's presence (sometimes consisting of only two sentences mentioning Olive) you learn the entire range of the human experience in Crosby, Maine. You learn about love, lost and pain. And through it all you see Olive grow and evolve as a character, sometimes through her point of view and other times through other character's eyes. What this novel structure does is give you a more multi-layered view of Olive as a character, and hell, you like her as much as you cringe at her sometimes. She makes plenty of mistakes and sometimes doesn't see herself very clearly at all, but other times she surprises you.</div><div><br /></div><div>I don't know how to explain this novel other than to say that its a journey through the human experience, its sad, its funny, its touching and its heartbreaking. Can I say anything else to convince you to read it? Because I command everyone to go out and read it right now! Hey, it didn't win the Pulitzer for no reason!</div><div><br /></div><div>5*</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Puerto Rican Pecan:</span></b></span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: none; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">I found the book, </span><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780812971835-0">Olive Kitteridge</a></i></span>, to be a great read, but not necessarily an enjoyable one. The author, Elizabeth Strout, is an amazing author. The book’s format as a collection of short stories was a brilliant way to do a character study on one person. Instead of a story that reads from the beginning to end, you get to see what everyone else in the community thinks of Olive. I have to admit, this was confusing to me at first. I went into this book thinking that it was a regular novel, with one main story line and one set of characters. I kept thinking that some of these characters would reappear, and while some do, most do not. I liked this, as the titular character, Olive Kitteridge, is a little abrasive and can be overbearing to everything else about the novel. It offered me a break from her point of view and gave me a breather to see another perspective of her. I really enjoyed meeting other people in the community of Crosby, and getting to see a snapshot of their lives, while getting to see Olive in passing. However, it was realistic in a way that made it maybe just a little too real for me. People fought without resolution, people died of cancer, bad things happened to good people and characters didn’t end up better for it. Some of the stories made me feel like I was looking in on a private moment, like I shouldn’t have been privy to it, and yet, now that I’m there I have to watch the train wreck. And then there are so many stories of these older married couples and their disconnection with each other as they age. They live in the same house, do the same things together out of routine, but there’s no passion or spontaneity. The novel has such realistic portrayal of emotion that it feels like this must be what marriage becomes for couples, which as a newlywed, made it hard to read. However, the novel is so well written that you can’t help but want to read more, even when your instincts are telling you to look away.</div><div><br /></div><div>I thought one of the most interesting parts of this book was the theme of love misunderstood. The one that stood out by far was the relationship between Olive and her son, Christopher. In Olive’s eyes, she’s been doing her best to love her son. She and her husband build him a house, they support him in his podiatry business, and are happy for him when he marries this woman after only knowing her for 6 weeks. However, in his eyes, you see a mother who was overbearing and yelled all the time. He felt smothered and pressured to be somebody that he wasn’t. How could she not know that she was smothering him? How is it that two people can have such a different view of the last 30 years? Was Christopher right that she denied any fault in herself, and that her “extreme capriciousness of moods” made him who he was? Or was Olive right that his childhood was fine, and that the therapist was putting words into his mouth to blame someone else for the way his life turned out? You’ll have to read and decide for yourself!<p></p></div></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-11411745629660092162010-01-29T22:13:00.003-05:002010-02-02T22:26:18.892-05:00Movie Splurge.Due to a coupon received in the mail that allowed us to rent all the movies we wanted in January for $1.99 at Blockbuster, my hubby and I have gone on a movie splurge. Thought I'd share a little taste with you all if you feel like making a couch potato out of yourself.<div><br /></div><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S2OsvK1XQvI/AAAAAAAAA14/vxEMm_PGxXw/s400/district9.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 95px; height: 140px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432375501900956402" /><div><b>District 9 </b>- A documentary style SyFy movie in which a group of aliens, stranded on Earth, are forced to live in a refugee camp on Earth. The camp is filled with trash and is a breeding ground for illegal activity, often involving taking advantage of the aliens. After twenty plus years, the population's interest and welcome of the aliens has deteriorated and they decide to ship them to a different camp with worse conditions, when things, of course, start to go wrong. With an interesting story line, the movie held my interest but didn't necessarily suck me in. The documentary style was a bit distracting and the personality of the aliens could have been better developed, especially in a movie trying to show how exploited the aliens are, I felt like their characters were very poorly developed. The main human character, Wilkus Van De Merwe, was extremely annoying for most of the movie. He was very much the anti-hero for much of it, only to come through at the very end, but by that time you're not even sure if you like him anymore. It's worth the time if it sounds interesting to you, but definitely not a must watch.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Star Trek </b>-I'd never watched the original Star Trek, but I was a <i>Next Generation </i>fan. My hubby was not a Trekkie of any degree and was reluctant to watch this movie with me but he was the first to admit that this movie was awesome! With a great and complex plot, interesting characters, great scenes, this movie was the complete package whether or not you ever watched an episode of Star Trek in your life. Definitely worth a watch, you won't be disappointed.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>The Hurt Locker </b>- How can you go wrong with a war movie with a female Director? In a blunt and ballsy movie about the Iraq war, The Hurt Locker takes you to war disarming IEDs with a wild team leader who doesn't seem to care if he dies during the job, a strong-willed Sargent who likes to do things by the book and a soldier who's just a kid and terrified to fire his first shot in war. In a tense life and death game in the middle of a violent war, you get a terrifying look at the different type of soldiers in the war and how the death and cruelty of war affect each one of them in different and yet profound ways. This movie had me on the edge of my seat the entire time and was well shot with compelling characters. Definitely check it out!</div><div><br /></div><img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S2Osu8b355I/AAAAAAAAA1w/s9gMPtRN2WA/s400/terminator.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 100px; height: 114px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432375498035947410" /><div><b>Terminator Salvation</b> - I've been a fan of the Terminator movies since I was a kid, except for the last Terminator movie. This movie redeemed the Terminator series. I'm also a big Christian Bale fan, so that was an added bonus. It was fun to finally go into the future of this series after meeting so many of its occupants. The plot was interesting and the scenes were cool and action packed. Can't wait for the next Terminator movie! Hopefully Christian Bale will be in it again... hmm, yummy!</div><div><br /></div><div><b>(500) Days of Summer </b>- A fun and quirky Indie un-love story told in an nonlinear timeline with interesting actors. Its fun, quirky and shot in that artistic way that Indie films tend to be shot in.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>The Wrestler</b> - Though extremely bloody at times, a moving movie about the the physical abuse one will inflict upon himself for fame and a sport that he loves. This movie takes you behind the wrestling world. Whether you blame "The Ram" for his life circumstances or not, you do like him and root for him in the end.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S2OsuqICe2I/AAAAAAAAA1g/mn2IQyuDqSs/s400/foodinc.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 94px; height: 140px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432375493120916322" /></div><div><b>Food, Inc. </b>- Wow, I could say a whole lot about this documentary. It was both disturbing and disgusting. I was already leaning towards organic food as it was, but this just put me over the edge. Of course, big corporations once again monopolize the industry and tries to keep its consumers from knowing what's really going on, but when it comes to our food, its more than personal. What could be more personal then what you put into your body? This has led me to research Community Supported Agriculture (CSAs) in order to buy local and organic. Definitely changed the way I live my life.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Up </b>- I cried within thirty minutes of watching this movie. A sweet and adventuress story, though I wouldn't say its a kids movie, at least not young children. It has more serious tones to it and it was a little slow at times to hold a young child's attention. It was a very sweet movie.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S2Osuzjs3FI/AAAAAAAAA1o/ki-y0f--E34/s400/let+the+right+one+in.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 94px; height: 139px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432375495652858962" /></div><div><b>Let the Right One In</b> - For those who want a different sort of vampire story than the popular Twilight movies (though, this isn't dissing the Twilight series since I'm an addict to them as well, vampire movies in general are kind of my thing). This movie has a romance, but between twelve-year-olds (sort of, one had been twelve for a very long time) and has subtitles. It's a much more grotesque and dark vampire movie, but at the same time artistic and beautiful. The more you think about the movie the more you like it.</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-62405764131169889552010-01-24T21:22:00.003-05:002010-01-24T21:43:43.020-05:00Busy Bee.I'm feeling extremely stressed right now, for a variety of reasons, but the pressing reason is that I'm cheering on my Vikings in a close and extremely painful game to watch (fumbles, Favre getting murdered every other play...) Speaking of, another fumble, grr... I'm tearing my hair out here!<div><br /></div><div>This week has been especially crazy, work was demanding and on top of that, I was a bit under the weather, making for a foggy and stressful week.</div><div><br /></div><div>Some updates, my friend and I decided to start our own book club so we can keep in touch since we live far from each other. We're going to alternate who picks the book every month and then by the end of the month both write a review of the book that I will post on my blog. This month I picked <i><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780812971835-0">Olive Kitteridge</a></i> by Elizabeth Strout since I was already reading it and also because I knew my friend would love it as I was loving it. I finished it last night and can't Wait to write my review. I might actually write it now as its fresh on my mind but wait to post it when my friend has written hers. I'm excited to read what she thought about it... I think this will be a fun thing for us and also for my loyal blog readers to get different perspectives on the same book, perhaps after following our reviews for a while you'll start finding yourself associating your reading tastes with one of us over the other!</div><div><br /></div><div>My writing has been slow, but I have faith that it'll pick up. I'm excited to be getting back into writing an dam slowly feeling like more of myself as I get more into it.</div><div><br /></div><div>Two minute warning, must focus on the game now. Sending all my positive energy to my Vikings.</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-15986012551025970312010-01-13T22:17:00.003-05:002010-01-14T17:18:33.880-05:00The Write Stuff.I was able to get some writing done today, not exactly the sort of writing I wanted to - it was for school - but it was writing nonetheless and made me feel like I was getting back into the "writing chair." It's a slow process for me to get back into writing. I'm a shy writer, and it takes me a while to warm up. But once I'm warmed up I'm a full-time writer as in no matter where I'm at, who I'm talking to or what I'm doing my mind is on my writing. I suppose that mirrors my personality pretty well, all or nothing.mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-52121031566120157292010-01-06T22:14:00.002-05:002010-01-06T22:27:15.438-05:00The Space.Okay, so in the spirit of honesty, I went out with a friend tonight instead of writing. I know, I know. If I'm going to take writing seriously then I need to make some sacrifices for it, but in all honesty, I'd been trying to get together with this friend for a long time and it was the only day we could both do it, also she had just found out some really good news so it felt like a good time to celebrate.<div><br /></div><div>But, despite that, I still feel crappy for missing my writing night and now am too tired to do much but go to bed. My plan is to take the time I was going to write tonight and create my writing space tomorrow. Right now my desk is covered with odds and ends that I didn't feel like dealing with at the time and so just threw onto my desk. Guess I'll have to deal with them now if I want a place to write. I think creating a neat and clean space is important for me to focus on my writing. I like things organized and it would be distracting to have a mess out of my peripheral while trying to focus. Anyways, I'm going to count that as my writing session for the week because creating the space is an important part of the process for me and will help me get into the right frame of mind.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm both excited and terrified to get back into writing. What if I suck? What if I've lost what little talent I had? What if, what if, what if? The possibility of failing, of losing the hope of my dream is very scary, but scarier is the idea of never having tried. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">C</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">liché</span></span>, but true. So next Wednesday, in my clean and organized zen-like space facing my beautiful back yard, I will face that blank page and while I may tremble, I Will type and spew out whatever I've been holding inside of me all these silent months and I won't look back. Honestly, I might not even read what I write that day, it might truly make me lose all hope.</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-29013788157983006832010-01-04T15:36:00.007-05:002010-01-04T16:19:41.946-05:00Hmm, Lemonade.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S0JSjqAfbFI/AAAAAAAAA04/sVN8V3J9sLc/s1600-h/LemonadeStand.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 162px; height: 166px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S0JSjqAfbFI/AAAAAAAAA04/sVN8V3J9sLc/s400/LemonadeStand.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422987673832746066" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Thanks bunches to </span></span><a href="http://suburbanrebelmom.blogspot.com/"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Suburban Rebel Mom</span></span></i></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> for giving me the </span></span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Lemonade Stand Award</span></span></b></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">! I've only been back blogging for a couple of weeks and I've already got an award! I'll take this as a positive sign to keep blogging.</span></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 24px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">This award is given to bloggers who show great attitude and gratitude. The rules for accepting this award:</span></span></span><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 24px; font-family:Arial, sans-serif;font-size:15px;"><ul><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Put the Lemonade Stand logo on your blog or within your post.</span></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Nominate at least 10 blogs with great attitude or gratitude.</span></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Link the nominees within your post.</span></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Let the nominees know they have received this award by commenting on their blog.</span></span></li><li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Share the love and link to the person from whom you received this award.</span></span></li></ul><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Sooo, without further ado, here are my nominees for the Lemonade Stand Award. Hope you check them out and enjoy!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><ul><li><a href="http://amrapajalic.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">amra pajalic</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://bbattles.blogspot.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">a writer's sphere</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://jackfruity.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">jackfruity</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://pernille.typepad.com/louderthanswahili/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">louder than swahili</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://mondesishouse.blogspot.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">mondesi's house</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://onemangotreeuganda.blogspot.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">one mango tree</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://www.mysterybookspot.com/sandra/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">on life and other inconveniences</span></span></a></li><li><a href="http://pinkcleats.blogspot.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">pink cleats</span></span></a></li><li style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://simplywait.blogspot.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">simply wait</span></span></a></li><li style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://syntaxofthings.typepad.com/syntax_of_things/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">syntax of things</span></span></a></li></ul><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Let me know if you become devotees to any of those blogs so I can take credit for your readership!</span></span></div></div></span></div></div></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-57487759001724767322010-01-04T15:26:00.004-05:002010-01-04T15:36:14.850-05:00I Resolve.So if I put my New Year's resolutions on my blog, then I have to do it, right? I expect you all to hold me accountable.<div><br /></div><div>So here we go:</div><div><br /></div><div>I resolve to write fiction at least once a week. I know, that's low-balling it, but as a perfectionist I have to keep my goals small, otherwise if they're too big then I get stressed out about accomplishing it and then I feel like I won't and if you know anything about a perfectionist, its that its all or nothing so if you don't think you can do something perfectly then you don't do it at all. So I'm starting with one day a week (Wednesdays I believe will be my chosen day) and give myself permission to write complete crap for a while until I get back into the swing of things. After so many months without writing, I think I'll have a lot of crap to get out. I'll end each writing session with a blog on how it went, unless those posts end up being really boring, then I might stop blogging about my writing.</div><div><br /></div><div>I resolve to read at least two books a month. Again, I'm low-balling it, but my life is pretty dang busy and I'm spread in so many different directions that I need to keep everything pretty simple in order to fit all the different parts of my life together. Reading is one of those things that I've let slip a little and I miss it, so two books a month at the very least. You can look for those book reviews.</div><div><br /></div><div>So other than trying to cut down on my cussing and working out more (which I figured you all really couldn't help me out with either of those much), that's about it. Of course, its mostly about taking care of myself better. What social worker is good at taking care of him or herself? I haven't really met one yet. Ah, the nature of the job!</div><div><br /></div><div>What are your resolutions, if any?</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-34534487749544226232010-01-04T10:38:00.004-05:002010-01-04T15:26:31.603-05:00Never Let Me Go: A Review<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S0ILvnLGsiI/AAAAAAAAA0w/pWqG1E9yEM8/s1600-h/neverletmego.cgi.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 120px; height: 177px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/S0ILvnLGsiI/AAAAAAAAA0w/pWqG1E9yEM8/s400/neverletmego.cgi.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5422909813904814626" /></a>Much like his previous novel, <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780679731726-1">The Remains of the Day</a>, <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9781400043392-0">Never Let Me Go</a> by Kazuo Ishiguro is a slow moving creature that drags you in bit by bit until you feel trapped in the novel but not sure how you got there. It's a novel about a group of "special" students, who are looked upon in fear even though their innocence cannot be doubted as the story is told to us by one of these students, Kathy.<div><br /></div><div>*Spoilers Full Speed Ahead*</div><div><br /></div><div>Although the plot couldn't be any more different from <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9780679731726-1">The Remains of the Day</a> (what an awkward title!), from the minute you start <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9781400043392-0">Never Let Me Go</a> there is no doubt that it was written by the same author. The restraint and reserve in Kathy's voice match's Stevens and of course there is the unrequited love that both miss just by the tips of their fingers due to their reserved character (although Kathy gets at least a little bit of it at the end). Both novels also discuss man's humanity in ways that make you feel that although as a whole our society can be monstrous, that amongst this horror there are shining stars of humanity, especially if you look for it exactly where you don't expect it.</div><div><br /></div><div><a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/17-9781400043392-0">Never Let Me Go</a> takes you on some twists and turns at a sometimes exhaustingly slow pace, but if you stick through it, by the end your more invested in the characters and their fate then you realize. And although perhaps it couldn't end any other way, the ending leaves you feeling slightly depressed and unsatisfied. Why hadn't Kathy and Tommy run away to spend whatever time they could together? Perhaps it wasn't in their nature, but you wish that they had and that even if there were to be a bloody ending to that path, they would have at least gotten to spend whatever time they had left on their terms and with each other. I think they would have been happy with that.</div><div><br /></div><div>I won't give the big spoiler away, but I will say that I was unaware of it for most of the first part of the novel, which obviously was Ishiguro's intent, and that it made the novel's message more powerful for me, so I'll leave that for you to discover on your own. If you have the time and patience for this novel, it is well worth the read. It gets in deep with you and forces you to view humanity with a much more cautious eye.</div><div><br /></div><div>4*</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-3977588285323919182009-12-21T17:05:00.003-05:002009-12-21T17:53:22.092-05:00The Power of Fantasy Football.Just so I don't end the year 2009 with just one post (embarrassing!), I decided to explain how fantasy football is responsible for me going after my dreams.<div><br /></div><div>It starts with a girl, obsessed with football and used to hanging with the boys when it comes to the sport. Then comes along fantasy football, now there's a point and use for all of her previously thought to be useless knowledge about football. Then came this year where said girl works at home with very little interaction with peers and she kicks some major ass in fantasy football and makes the playoffs in second place in the league. Then comes the game where said girl lets her husband (who did Not make the playoffs and was battling to not be last place most of the year - why oh why did she listen to him she now wonders) convince her to start Chris Jennings (RB Cleveland) over Maurice Morris (RB Detroit). This led to the devastating loss in which she would have won by over twenty points to a loss of two points.</div><div><br /></div><div>All of this would have been upsetting in any given year, but this year where the girl was feeling isolated led her to tears. Yes. Tears. She yelled at her husband for a while, hoping that would make her feel better, but alas, it didn't. When she realized that perhaps there was more to this then just losing fantasy football. She remembered feeling down the last couple of days, the first time when she received an email from her old Creative Writing professor and mentor requesting an update of writing accomplishments to be sent to the English Department. Gulp. The girl felt a pain in her heart as she realized that if she were to respond her email would be blank. Then the very next day she was watching an <a href="http://www.fox50.com/dpp/shows/dollhouse/DOLLHOUSE_Season_2_Eliza_Dushku">interview of Eliza Dushku</a> and heard her talking about how she'd just got back from Uganda to do research on building a trauma center for former child soldiers, and instead of feeling happy that someone else was pursuing her dream and helping the children, the girl felt her heart drop into her stomach in disappointment that it wasn't <i>her </i>that was helping the children.</div><div><br /></div><div>Have you figured it out yet? Yes, <b>I </b>am said girl, shocking, I know. And after I was crying due to losing in fantasy football, that's when the realization hit that I needed to get back into something I was passionate about otherwise that little pain would just grow and I would just go crazier than I already was.</div><div><br /></div><div>Thank you fantasy football.</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-80280228554501843182009-12-21T01:01:00.003-05:002009-12-21T01:12:25.763-05:00Goals.I know its been over a year since I've last posted and I'm not sure anyone even checks this blog anymore or will bother to read it after all this time. Fair enough. I've been sucked from the virtual world with a lot of real world turbulence, both good and bad. Moving, traveling, etc...<div><br /></div><div>But now I'm at a place where I've been given the opportunity to try to focus on my writing more seriously and get back into the things that I'm passionate about that has been left by the wayside while life has whisked me by.</div><div><br /></div><div>So this is what I'm going to do. I'm going to start blogging again, mostly about my writing goals, progress and struggles, but also about the books I'm reading and my philanthropic interests, and lastly about my less serious interests such as sports, music, etc. - though some may doubt how less serious they are after seeing my reaction to my Vikes and both my fantasy football teams losing today.</div><div><br /></div><div>And if people want to read about it, cool. If not, then this will just be my private journal about what's going on in my life. A place to dump my thoughts, keep myself organized, motivated and held accountable to my goals.</div><div><br /></div><div>It's good to be back!</div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-22199966847607215462008-10-02T11:29:00.002-04:002008-10-02T11:38:14.397-04:00Flip of the Coin?I know this is past the fact, but I was annoyed by this Prior to the Twins/White Sox elimination game. With so many different measures the MLB could use, they use a FLIP OF THE COIN to determine who gets the home game? What about head-to-head record, in which the Twins were leading 10-8 or division record or something, not a flip of a stinkin' coin! I wouldn't be so presumptuous to say that the Twins would have won had it been at the Metrodome... but it would have been a different game and the MLB should re-look at that ridiculous rule.mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-4771247488981925002008-09-29T13:16:00.000-04:002008-09-30T14:02:29.669-04:00Bring Back the Dump Truck!Could we have gone through any more Running Backs last night? That game last night was ugly and painful to watch and we really owe our Defense a big hug for giving us the win. Our supposedly improved O-Line is not only Not improved this year but now even more banged up than ever. With Simmons out for the season with an Achilles injury<span style=";font-size:10;color:black;" ></span> and Marvel Smith getting banged up, Ben's got a target the size of Russia on his chest right now. We also have key injuries on our D-Line to Hampton and Keisel (both out for the Jags game). Not to mention that we only have one healthy RB on our roster (Moore) with Parker already ruled out for the Jags game and our rookie, Mendenhall put on injured reserve and out for the rest of the season with a fractured shoulder.<br /><br />I guess we'll be calling the Dump Truck...<br /><br />P.S. I'll be at the Jags game Sunday night (Yay!), though it might be an extremely painful game the way things are going with the Steelers (Boo...)mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-67796007421058385352008-08-16T18:36:00.003-04:002008-08-16T19:01:55.950-04:00Let The Analyzing Begin...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/SKdXtFojx5I/AAAAAAAAAR8/Ow1gbQnN-Ag/s1600-h/normal_081408_bills_2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/SKdXtFojx5I/AAAAAAAAAR8/Ow1gbQnN-Ag/s400/normal_081408_bills_2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5235249523959515026" border="0" /></a>It's Preseason time which means Steelers talk is back on the blog. With the help of Tivo and careful dissection, I've been able to glean these thoughts so far:<br /><ul><li>Our O-Line looks much improved from last year, especially with Hartwig in there versus Mahan. However, Ben's doing a Much better job of getting the ball out of his hands quicker and using his check downs more. He did throw that one bad throw, resulting in a tipped ball and ultimately an interception, but he learned from that mistake, seen by a play in a later series where he was under similar pressure and was trying to make a play out of it, but then you could almost see him stop and think and then throw it out of bounds instead. And of course, Ben still has his amazing escape abilities (shown in the picture above) that has made him such an exciting player to watch.</li><li>Our D-Line meanwhile looks much worse. The age of the line may be the culprit, as well as the fact that the line Cannot stop the run without Hampton in there, and even with him in there, he's showing to be a bit rusty (or out of shape). We didn't show much pass rush in the first half of the game, and I know LeBeau doesn't like to reveal his fancy blitzes in preseason, but the lack of pass rush was embarrassing for a while, but it started to come together a little bit later in the game. Our D still seems to have the "bend don't break" mentality, reluctant to give up the big plays but letting the other team move methodically down the field on us. I know Polamalu's not in there, but overall our D scared me a little. The only bright spot was Timmons who looked Fierce! Foote's getting old and could not complete a tackle last night, and Timmons seemed to be wherever the ball was tackling like a maniac! I loved it, it was great to see some good tackling from at least One of our Defensive players. Overall the tackling was sloppy and weak. Anthony Smith got in some good tackles, but he needs to be more consistent.</li><li>Stupid penalties on the offense better be preseason jitters and better not happen during the regular season. We lost at least two third and shorts because of them.</li><li>I think we'll be hearing "Ben to Santonio Holmes!" a lot this season!</li><li>The special teams Was looking better until that return for a TD, but I'm not too concerned about one blunder, overall our coverage was improved. Wish we could some more yards on our own returns though.</li><li>I'm glad Mendenhall finally learned at least One move by the end of the game, before his spin move he basically was as stiff as a pencil. Russell impressed me more than the rookie.</li><li>Jeff Reed, seriously? After looking like a stud hitting a 50-yarder last week (in Heinz field of all places, notorious for being tough on kickers) you miss a 42-yarder? Drink too much the night before?<br /></li></ul>I'll keep watching and keep you updated on my observations. I finished watching the game with mixed feelings... excitement about our Offense and doubt about our Defense. Watching the Vikes tonight...mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-25248574038196777422008-07-21T20:30:00.001-04:002008-07-21T20:32:33.802-04:00How I Love Chaos In Bungal Territory<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Completely out of nowhere, the Bungals savior quarterback totally disses Ohio's beloved Buckeyes.<br/><br/><a href='http://ncaafootball.fanhouse.com/2008/07/20/carson-palmer-hates-ohio-state/' target='_blank'> In his own words</a>:<br/><br/><blockquote>I cannot stand the Buckeyes.<br/><br/>It's amazing to hear what those guys think about that university and<br/>what they think about that football program and Tressel and all the<br/>crap I gotta put up with being back there.<br/><br/>I just can't wait for two years from now when SC comes to the 'Shoe and<br/>hopefully we'll have a home game that weekend and I can go up there and<br/>watch us pound on them in their own turf.<br/><br/>I'm really getting sick of it and I just can't wait for this game to<br/>get here so they can come out to the Coliseum and experience LA and get<br/>an old-fashioned Pac-10 butt-whoopin' and go back to the Big Ten.<br/></blockquote><br/>Now I'm not a native Ohio-ian, but having lived there for about ten years it doesn't take a brain surgeon to know that the Buckeyes are Way more popular (not to mention way Better) than the Bungals. I'm salivating imagining the Ohio-ians now turning on their beloved Palmer. This is one time that I wish I were back in Ohio just to see the Bungal fans being forced to choose their loyalties. I think it's obvious what team they'd pick. Hmm, 7 National Championship Titles or 0 Lombardi trophies? I'll say this. Since living in North Carolina I've heard people singing the Ohio State fight song twice at bars here, I don't even Know what the Bungals fight song sounds like.<br/><br/>Burn Bungals, burn! Hehehe.<br/></div>mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-8146859462092146812008-07-20T19:47:00.002-04:002008-11-13T06:46:13.524-05:00mai wen's Top Ten Best Trip Moments<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/SIPPbW-6nEI/AAAAAAAAAR0/ZRRYwxzdcus/s1600-h/IMG_0485.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_UF2eta4zye0/SIPPbW-6nEI/AAAAAAAAAR0/ZRRYwxzdcus/s400/IMG_0485.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5225248061612792898" border="0" /></a>10. Getting attacked by monkeys. Actually, this wasn't one of my best moments, but it's a great story to tell despite the fact that it was terrifying while happening. Those monkeys mean business!<br />9. Shopping! Pearls, come to momma! Even my frugal hubby loved shopping in Thailand because everything was so dang cheap!<br />8. Getting cuddly with elephants.<br />7. Drinking Thailand "moonshine" whisky at a hill tribe while trekking.<br />6. Bamboo rafting on a raft that was contemplating on falling apart for the majority of the rafting.<br />5. Getting an elephant shitting drawn on my forehead in charcoal.<br />4. Hitting up the Thailand nightlife and very gracefully falling asleep at the sleaziest Thailand after hours bar.<br />3. Seeing my Bernie (Bernie is my college friend who I visited in Chiang Mai for those unawares) and lounging around her place enjoying her company and getting an insight on real Thai culture!<br />2. Getting to spend an obnoxious amount of time with my hubby, which never got old. I guess that's why I married the dude. :)<br />1. Finding an Australian Steelers fan in Krabi, Thailand.mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-21356796551412769232008-07-15T20:25:00.002-04:002008-07-15T20:32:23.146-04:00Home.Okay, so I've been home for about a week now. Sorry I didn't post a "I got home safe and sound" post! I've been catching up on my time zone as well as other things, such as housework, hair appointments, friends, family, work, etc. Eeesh, you come home and don't even have a day of rest before real life comes flying back into your face.<br /><br />I'll post more about the last part of my trip and post some pictures up this weekend if I can manage it. :)<br /><br />Much thanks for your comments! Loved reading them while I was away!mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-89607229918631055222008-06-30T06:54:00.003-04:002008-06-30T07:05:26.346-04:00Old Friends and Elephant Dung PaperI wanted to start with an explanation of my last post and why The Ant Wars was so traumatic to me, I hate no insect more than ants. Long story short, I grew up with an ant infested house when I was younger and was thus traumatized. I was just thinking about it and thought people might think I'm a finicky girly girl reading my post about ants, but I assure you for the most part I'm not. It's just those damn ants.<br /><br />Anyways, I'm in Chiang Mai and have had an amazing time seeing my old friend from college here and meeting her man, Boon! We enjoyed some drinks, food and shopping at a night market last night where I got some amazing items for dirt cheap, just the way I like it. Later this week she's going to be taking me to get real salt water pearls for dirt cheap, I'm very excited! Today we went to a temple and an elephant show! Apparently the best elephant show in Thailand with elephants who have broke a Guinness Book World Record of the biggest painting painted by elephants... bet you didn't know that was a category did ya? It's a really amazing picture actually and the elephant show was so much fun, we even got to see a four month old elephant that was so freaking cute I almost wanted to take the little guy home with me. When I was feeding him bananas he looked like a little kid trying to eat chocolate cake and even proceeded to rub his face in the mashed up banana when he was done trying to eat it! My favorite item in the gift shop at the elephant show? Elephant dung paper. Recycling's great!<br /><br />Tomorrow we plan on trekking through the rain forest, stopping in local villages for sleep. Just another day here in Thailand where elephants walking down the side of the road and trekking through rain forests are daily occurrences. As always, the experience of being in a place with people who live here is more rich than just visiting purely as a tourist, and we get the really great deals on stuff too! :) I've learned so much about Thai culture such as every Thai person has English nick names since many of their Thai names are too long or difficult to pronounce. Some of the nicknames? How about Guitar, Bong, Beer, Peach and Hamburger? You can't help but crack a smile, and nobody minds here with their laid back and accepting culture! I've also learned a lot about the non-profit community here and the issues that Thailand faces socially, which is great research for my future career as an International Social Worker!<br /><br />I'll try to blog after our trekking adventure where I will actually get to ride an elephant! Wahoo!<br /><br />P.S. There's a bar around the corner from where we're staying for sale for about $11,000 American dollars, Hubby and I are very tempted...mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29951307.post-89808786261895067792008-06-27T05:06:00.003-04:002008-06-27T05:22:50.345-04:00The Ant Wars.After spending a night in Bangkok, we landed in Krabi two hours late due to a storm that had cropped up over the Krabi airport. After circling in the air for thirty minutes our pilot took us to a nearby airport in Puk Tu (I'm probably butchering the spelling, will correct that later, promise) where we sat until the storm cleared in Krabi. Arriving in Krabi we barely landed before the said storm started up again and we were running into the airport drenched. And so our time in Krabi was to start in pouring down rain. I was warned that it was the Rainy Season.<br /><br />Our hotel, Wanna's Place, is a mix of Thai and Swiss charm as that is the combination of the owners. We can see the ocean from our patio window and it is a spotless and gorgeous room. Perfect, except for one thing... it started when I noticed a line of ants circling our sink in the bathroom (Did I mention that we get hot showers here too! A real luxury!) And then we foolishly left a cup out that I had rinsed out rather than really cleaned and a swarm was in our cup on our dresser. Next a rebel piece of beef jerky crumb that I must have let slip from my hands while munching. After many battles of spraying my high deet bug spray and pouring handfuls of water over the ants around our sink, the war is well on it's way. We've gone into stashing anything resembling food in the mini-fridge as to not attract their troops. Though I do think they have renegade troops as later when we were getting ready to kayak we got attacked by some fire ants.<br /><br /><strong>Attack of the Monkeys.</strong><br /><strong></strong><br />We signed up for a trip kayaking through mangroves and the lagoon, to end in a cave that we'd be able to kayak into. On the way we stopped to feed some Makah Monkeys. Before we were even out of our kayaks, one of the monkeys was on the shore welcoming us and reaching his hand out for the food he knew us to have. We began the process of handing out the bananas, nuts and fruits that we'd brought with us, me being the feminist/child activist I am, giving more to the mothers and the younger monkeys than the big male that was sauntering around (obviously the boss monkey, as our tour guide put it). After giving all my food away, I decided to walk around and check out the nature around the monkeys since it was gorgeous when I cross some invisible monkey line into territory that I was not welcome in and they swarm around me, lunging at my legs! Luckily they didn't try to bite since I did not <span style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffff00">go</span> for the $500 rabies vaccination, but I was left deeply terrified of the monkeys. After my violation the monkeys became more aggressive and irritable with the other visitors as well and I'm not ashamed to say I ended up hiding behind two of my fellow kayakers from the damn monkeys! My favorite moment of the monkeys though was when I was trying to toss a nut up to a monkey on the cliff and she wasn't catching it so it fell down and hit one of the tour guides in the shoulder and he looked at me and screamed, "I'm not a monkey!"mai wenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15570452594754186072noreply@blogger.com5